Today we remember

Today, and honestly every day, Travis and I remember our four, nope, now five losses.

Honestly, how fitting... today the cramps have begun. I can tell that my body changed with this last pregnancy, because I never have cramps like this (they are hardly even bothersome usually).... these are different cramps... like my body is being racked with grief and mourning. I might not be passing an 11 week old baby, but but for a time, it was still my baby.

Travis and I are at a resort on a lake about an hour and a half from our home. Part of it is going to be busy with conferences and awards ceremony, but hopefully for part of it we can re-group. Try to figure out what we are going to do next. Just be together.

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To all those couples that have endured even just one loss, my thoughts are with you on this day.  I pray for peace for all of us.

PRESIDENTIAL PROCLAMATION
OCTOBER
Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month

Each year, approximately a million pregnancies in the U.S. end in miscarriage, stillbirth or the death of the newborn child. National observance of Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month offers us the opportunity to increase our understanding of the great tragedy involved in the deaths of unborn and newborn babies. It also enables us to consider how, as individuals and communities, we can meet the needs of bereaved parents and family members on work to prevent causes of these problems.


Health care professionals recognize that trends of recent years, such as smaller family size and postponement of childbearing, adds another dimension of poignancy to the grief of parents who have lost infants. More than 700 local, national and international support groups are supplying programs and strategies designed to help parents cope with their loss. Parents who have suffered their own losses, health care professionals and specially trained hospital staff members are helping newly bereaved parents deal constructively with loss...

The Congress, by Senate Joint Resolution 314, has designated the month of October, as "Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month" and authorized and requested the President to issue a proclamation in observance of this month.

NOW, THEREFORE, I RONALD REAGAN, President of the United States of America, do hereby proclaim the month of October as Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. I call upon the people of the United States to observe this month with appropriate programs, ceremonies, and activities.

IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have hereunto set my hand this twenty-fifth day of October in the year of our Lord nineteen hundred and eighty-eight and of the Independence of the United States of America the two hundred and thirteenth.



Ronald Reagan
Former President
United States of America