tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8864154272358329303.post3912294237477040529..comments2024-02-29T21:41:08.147-08:00Comments on Got Love, Been Married, now where the hell's the baby carriage: Ugh...Jennhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05749642916899596407noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8864154272358329303.post-60212864201786446182010-06-28T10:54:18.548-07:002010-06-28T10:54:18.548-07:00Delays suck. I am an adoptive mom. We had to wait ...Delays suck. I am an adoptive mom. We had to wait three extra months for our son to come home b/c of a glitch with our fingerprints for immigration. Best wishes to you on your journey.<br />Please check out my non profit's blog and website.<br />www.parenthoodforme.org<br />Our mission is to provide financial and emotional support to those building families through adoption or medical intervention. We need help spreading the word!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8864154272358329303.post-24658331221598901782010-06-22T13:56:49.553-07:002010-06-22T13:56:49.553-07:00I hear you. No matter what we do waiting is always...I hear you. No matter what we do waiting is always the hardest thing of this whole process. (Well that and seeing women with young babies of course ...)Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07336643483655255680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8864154272358329303.post-71061825315385593952010-06-18T08:44:15.387-07:002010-06-18T08:44:15.387-07:00A setback, while sucky, is just that a set*back*. ...A setback, while sucky, is just that a set*back*. Not a road block. It sucks but thank god you are still on the road. It is way disheartening that because of other peoples mistakes you are not a far as you should be but you are still working toward your goal of bringing home that baby and that's what is important!kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02842772568517980980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8864154272358329303.post-53260671168788330082010-06-18T08:23:19.390-07:002010-06-18T08:23:19.390-07:00The homestudy process is really over-whelming. It ...The homestudy process is really over-whelming. It sounds like you're on your way to finishing it up. A certified copy of a marriage certificate is easy to get. Other items will be easy too. For me, I bought a cute little binder at Target and kept everything in it - copies of everything I gave them and a check list, I made for myself, to ensure I was organized. It went against my nature, but it really helped. The homestudy will get done and finalized, it's just the little things left. And, like you said, it's the perfect op to pay off your truck. We feel the same way about bringing a baby home. While I'd love to be picked this fall, if it's not until the winter or even the first of next year, that works better...financially. Emotion vs. finances - that sucks!!! Anyway - good luck with everything. You are in my thoughts!Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18039460517337016255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8864154272358329303.post-1454149741621154432010-06-18T07:06:03.597-07:002010-06-18T07:06:03.597-07:00What a bummer to come back to issues like those af...What a bummer to come back to issues like those after a nice time away. <br /><br />In the realm of hopeful thinking, perhaps this is the universe setting you up for a match that would not have been available earlier? Hard to see while you are going through it though.Mrs. Higrenshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05716402229360715867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8864154272358329303.post-69070727972847768502010-06-18T03:55:23.655-07:002010-06-18T03:55:23.655-07:00Bummer! I say this in the best way possible--but ...Bummer! I say this in the best way possible--but sometimes things like these setbacks are out of our hands. YOU did everything possible. YOU made every effort to get the ball rolling. YOU are not to blame. Sometimes there is no one to blame...which sucks. Hang in there!Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05554468946901249302noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8864154272358329303.post-22309118496953971022010-06-17T21:10:13.168-07:002010-06-17T21:10:13.168-07:00Don't forget that you are still on the road......Don't forget that you are still on the road...whatever is meant to be will happen!jenicinihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16361606793108116475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8864154272358329303.post-72557484548177624212010-06-17T19:23:58.581-07:002010-06-17T19:23:58.581-07:00I'm sorry for the setbacks, Jenn - that just s...I'm sorry for the setbacks, Jenn - that just sucks! I am happy that you had some fun time with your husband and some fun time to yourself, though! Good luck on deciding what to do about the truck!<br /><br />(((HUGS)))<br />AmyAmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13477204676792146384noreply@blogger.com